Mohsin Gets a New Car!

Over the holiday season, a generous donor gave her Dodge Durango to Lutheran Services of Georgia. Soon afterward, we found someone who could benefit from having his own means of transportation to and from work. Mohsin, an Iraqi man who recently came to the United States as a refugee, lives in Clarkston and works at a bakery in Norcross. With his new car, Mohsin will be able to get to work much more easily, and we're delighted that we could accommodate his need.

Mohsin and his wife Melad were delighted, too, and they expressed their delight and gratitude by surprising LSG staff with a cake during lunchtime on January 29. Here are a couple of photographs from the spontaneous party. LSG thanks Mohsin and Melad for their thoughtful and tasty gift and wishes them the best with their new car!

To see more photographs of Mohsin's new car and the impromptu celebration at LSG, please visit our facebook page: www.facebook.com/LSofGA

LSG cheers on Georgia Tech!

Although the Yellow Jackets did not manage to pull out a win in overtime against the Virginia Tech Hokies, the folks who came to support Georgia Tech and Lutheran Services of Georgia had plenty to cheer for during Lutheran Day at Georgia Tech. Inside McCamish Pavilion, the large new basketball arena where Georgia Tech plays its games, the Lutheran fans were greeted near the end of the first half by a famous figure in Yellow Jacket circles: Buzz, the school mascot. He shook hands with some of the fans and then posed in a few pictures with excited youth.

More than thirty people came to Lutheran Day at Georgia Tech, including staff from LSG, members of Lutheran Volunteer Corps, and families from local Lutheran congregations. “Lutheran Day was a lot of fun,” said Bob Gibeling, LSG’s Volunteer Coordinator, “especially when Buzz came over to greet the Lutherans during the game.” Bob also noted that more people came to the game than in previous years and reflected on the event’s importance. “It’s great to see the event grow each year since it provides an opportunity to talk about the great work that Lutheran Services of Georgia does while enjoying each other’s company.” The scoreboard notwithstanding, the game was a win for everyone who supported LSG!

A Week with the Volunteers from Denison

It takes nine hours to drive the 600 miles from Granville, Ohio to Atlanta, Georgia, but this week eleven students from Denison University made the journey anyway. As part of a week-long service trip focusing on the experiences of refugees, these students are volunteering in LSG’s Refugee Services department, as well as tutoring at McClendon Elementary School in Decatur. After a busy day of working at LSG and at the school, the volunteers spend the night at SafeHouse Outreach, an urban outreach center in Atlanta, where they cook their own meals and reflect on their work.

They treat this opportunity to volunteer as a privilege, though, not a burden. “I’m fortunate to be able to speak the language of welcome,” Rachel Jean-Louis, the trip co-leader, remarked. Since some of the students did not know much about the experiences of refugees before arriving in Atlanta, they spent time learning about the process of refugee resettlement during a brief orientation with LSG and also with Refugee Family Services. According to Sara Forbes, the other leader of the trip, learning about the experience of becoming a refugee has sparked several engaging conversations among the group about the similarities and differences between immigration and refugee resettlement.

The group has also had the opportunity to interact with the individuals, families, and children who have come to the United States as refugees. On Tuesday, the volunteers drove around Clarkston with Guru Chhetri, one of LSG’s case managers, and visited families from Bhutan and other countries. On Wednesday they tutored refugee men and women during LSG’s ESL training, helping them to practice their English skills and to fill out employment history cards. And again on Friday the volunteers will sort books in Clarkston to assist LSG in preparing for the MLK Day of Service. LSG thanks them for their contributions throughout the week and wishes them a safe return home!

See more photographs of the Denison crew on our facebook page: www.facebook.com/LSofGA

Lutheran Day at Georgia Tech Basketball this Saturday!

Georgia Tech vs. Virginia Tech January 12, 2013 at 2:30 p.m. McCamish Pavilion

Whether you bleed old gold and white or any other collegiate colors, come enjoy a day of college basketball and benefit those in need at the 2nd annual Lutheran Day at Georgia Tech Basketball on Saturday, January 12 at 2:30 p.m. You get to watch the Yellow Jackets take on the Virginia Tech Hokies while Lutheran Services of Georgia raises money with each ticket sold for its adoption and foster care services, as well as for its programs supporting developmentally disabled children and adults. Even a diehard Bulldogs fan would watch a Georgia Tech game to support such a good cause! Bring your kids, friends, parents, and all other basketball fans with you to watch the encounter between these two ACC heavyweights. It's the perfect way to spend a chilly January afternoon!

To purchase your tickets for $23, please contact Mary Kay Kates at mkates@lsga.org or at 678-686-9601.

Introducing LSG's new program: Lutheran Behavioral Health Services

When Lucy Cannon’s brother suffered from depression, she wanted to know why. She wanted to know how she could help. Initially thinking that she was going to be an interior designer, she changed her plans after this personal experience and studied social work at Florida State University. She then obtained a master’s degree in social work and a doctorate in education. Over her career, Dr. Cannon has been, among other things, a counselor, a professor, a manager of mental health and substance abuse services, and an auditor of Medicaid Services. Married to a man in the United States Army, she even worked on an American military base in Japan, counseling families of U.S. military members who suffered from drug addictions. Dr. Cannon continues to provide mental health and substance abuse services as a consultant for the U.S. Navy Reserve, Southeast Region. Dr. Cannon’s extensive experience with mental health and substance abuse has led her to Lutheran Services of Georgia, where she will be overseeing LSG’s newest program: Lutheran Behavioral Health Services. Designed to address the growing need for core services such as psychological testing, substance abuse treatment, and individual outpatient services, this program will benefit not only the families and individuals that LSG serves, but also families throughout Georgia, where hundreds of thousands of people lack these core services. LSG is currently in the process of applying for Medicaid funding and is excited to be able to offer these crucial services to the community in the near future.

Iraqi Couple Becomes LSG’s First Refugee Family in Savannah

After flying from Jordan to Miami, staying over in Miami for a few hours, and then hopping on another flight from Miami to Savannah, Ghassan and Nashwan were fairly tired when they walked away from their plane in the Savannah airport. Once they caught sight of their son—whom they had not seen in several years—standing near the exit, however, they perked up. On December 13, Ghassan and Nashwan became the first two refugee clients that Lutheran Services of Georgia resettled in Savannah since the early 1980s. Originally from Iraq, Ghassan and Nashwan pursued scientific careers in Baghdad, Ghassan as an engineer and Nashwan as a physicist. Then the war began, and eventually the couple had to flee Baghdad because of the violence, finding refuge in Jordan. From there they waited to find out whether they would be able to settle permanently in another country. It eventually became possible for them to move to Savannah, where their son—who had been resettled to the United States seven years ago—owned and operated a commodities-trading business.

Now Ghassan and Nashwan will stay with their son while they look for work and a house of their own to live in. Ghassan already speaks fluent English, having learned it in school and practiced it with American clients in Iraq, and is eager to find a job. Nashwan, who does not speak English as well as her husband does, is looking forward to improving her skills in the spring when she will start taking language classes at Savannah Technical College. In the meantime, the two of them are enjoying the company of their son and the prospect of beginning anew in Savannah.

Here Comes Santa Claus! Foster Care and FACES Holiday Party

Amid the sweet smells of honey buttered rolls and roasted chicken, the children, participants and families crowded in for a celebration of family, friends, and the holiday season. After greetings were passed, and everyone was all full and fed (the excessive amount of bread pudding was to blame) Old Saint Nick came frolicking in sporting that ever-so-famous white beard and bright-red attire. The children and FACES participants, after tugging on his beard to confirm its “realness,” eagerly awaited their chance to tell him their holiday wishes. After many hugs, jolly laughs, and adorable photographs, everyone settled down for the next activity—the gift raffle. From Museum vouchers to Six Flags tickets, and all the prizes in between, everyone went home a winner! Thanks to our enthusiastic winners, laughter filled the room as those energetic parents entertained the entire party with celebratory dancing! The rest of the night went about in the same lively manner. All in all, due to a great turnout, bountiful amounts of delicious food, and many laughs, the night was a huge success! Thank you to all the volunteers, donors, and families in attendance for another wonderful Christmas Party!

A special thanks to the following organizations/people for their contributions and donations: 1. Six Flags Over Georgia 2. Imagine It! Children’s Museum 3. Alliance Theatre at the Woodruff 4. Center for Puppetry Arts 5. Zoo Atlanta 6. Golden Corral (Jonesboro) 7. Joe Menchoffer (Santa) 8. Women of the ELCA Magi Cluster and friends 9. Sisters of the Good Shepherd Circle of Lutheran Church of the Redeemer

Chad Steinborn is the marketing coordinator for Lutheran Services of Georgia

Christmas Party for Adoption Services

“Ho, ho, ho, Merry Christmas!” Santa calls out as he enters the room full of children and youth. Bearing an uncanny resemblance to Steve Oliver, an LSG employee, Santa walks around and greets the children, who either eye him suspiciously or run up to him and shout, “Santa, Santa!” Mrs. Claus also makes an appearance, talking with the kids and answering their questions about the North Pole. Santa then takes a seat and the children form a line next to him. The first kid hops up onto his lap and nestles into position, and Santa asks his big question, the one that kids never tire of hearing: “What do you want for Christmas?”

This is how the Christmas party for LSG’s Adoption Services began. Families from across Atlanta gathered at LSG to celebrate the holidays and their involvement with the agency. Parents who had adopted infants just after they were born through LSG’s Domestic Infant Adoption Program and those who had adopted children from foster care through LSG’s Heritage Adoption Program all came together for the celebration. Two adoptive parents traveled all the way from Savannah for the party, wanting to thank everyone at LSG for helping them adopt their daughter, now a three-year-old. For Electra Evans, LSG’s Domestic Infant Adoption Coordinator, the best part of the afternoon was “seeing the babies that I placed who are now three- and four-years old.”

All of the families were familiar with LSG and the Adoption Services staff, but they did not know each other. “It was really neat how they connected over adoption,” said Noreen Horrigon, LSG’s State Adoption Program Manager, referring to the adoptive parents. Couples made these connections all afternoon, trading stories about adoption while watching their children race around the room or create necklaces and bracelets at the arts and crafts table in the corner. LSG thanks all the parents and children who celebrated with us, and we look forward to the party next year, when the Adoption “family” will have grown even larger!

Refugee Stories: A Thanksgiving Reunion

In November of 2011, Aung Ko Ko, Lily Paw and their four children were resettled in Atlanta by LSG in partnership with the Lutheran Church of the Redeemer in Atlanta. With four young children, a fifth child on the way and father Aung's visual impairment from a land mine explosion, this family had its share of challenges. One member of Redeemer's Resettlement Team who happened to be an R.N., Carol Swisher, became especially close to this Karen Burmese family. Carol accompanied Lily to all her prenatal doctor visits and attended Lily during the labor and delivery of baby Rosemarie! Soon after the baby's birth, the family had the opportunity to move to Milwaukee, Wisconsin to live with extended family. Though it was a sad farewell for the family and their Redeemer friends, all promised to keep in touch.

This Thanksgiving, Carol (pictured far left in photo below) visited Lily, Aung, and the children Juspina, Veronica, Samuel, Sunday and baby Rosemarie. It was a reunion full of joy and gratitude for friendships that last! Here’s Carol’s account of the visit: I visited Lily on Wednesday and she was standing outside the house awaiting me. We embraced and took her to Social Security office, but we had no medical records so couldn't accomplish the name change on baby Rosemarie’s Social Security Card (it was listed incorrectly on the card). My son was ill with the flu, so that day I only got to see the 2 youngest children, as the others were in school. On Saturday, my son, daughter-in-law and I returned and took a set of melmac dishes, cups, hats and gloves for all and of course the family favorite - apples and oranges! All the kids were home and we had a wonderful visit.

Yosef's New Ride

Last year Ann Greinke, a teacher at Faith Lutheran School, coordinated an effort to resettle a refugee family and then decided to donate something else to LSG besides her time and energy: her Saturn coupe. After receiving this generous donation, LSG presented a challenge to its refugee clients: the first person to secure a driver’s license would receive the car. Yosef, a refugee from Eritrea who spent much of his life in Kenya, responded to this challenge and began the process of obtaining his license. He studied the driver’s manual, got his permit, and eventually succeeded in passing the driving test. A former taxi driver in Kenya, Yosef already knew how to drive, but completing this process still required diligence and commitment. Although Yosef does not yet have a job, having this car makes him a more marketable candidate because he can access remote or rural work locations. In the meantime, Yosef is preoccupied with something else: the imminent arrival of his brother, sister-in-law, and their child to Atlanta. He is excited not only because he will be able to see them after many months of separation, but also because he will be able to pick them up in his new car and drive them around town!

New Opportunity for FIS

Congratulations to LSG’s Family Intervention Services! The FIS department in Atlanta is part of a team that has received a sizable grant from the Administration for Children and Families to provide parenting and trauma treatment for participants in the DeKalb County Drug Court and their children over the next five years. Georgia State University Research Foundation organized the grant proposal and coordinated the agencies involved in the project, selecting LSG’s Family Intervention Services from among other parenting programs—an honor for the newly created FIS department in Atlanta. As a part of this collaborating team that includes Georgia Department of Family and Children’s Services and the Georgia Center on Child Advocacy, LSG will offer parenting education courses to the participants. This project will benefit the children of the participants in the DeKalb County Drug Court, some of whom have not received any parenting education. LSG is delighted to expand the agency’s services to support a group of children and their parents who are in need of the resources and programming that LSG offers. LSG is also excited about the opportunity to hire another case manager to provide the services for the project.

Yeshey's Voting Story

Yeshey Pelzom, LSG’s Program Manager for Refugee Services, goes with her husband to vote early for the election. Like all the citizens around them, Yeshey and her husband wait in line and then fill out their ballots on the electronic voting machines. After casting their ballots, however, the couple does not immediately rush out of the building to get on with their day. This moment is too important for them. They turn to one another and celebrate, hugging and yelling, letting out all of their excitement and relief. Yeshey is voting for the first time. Born in Bhutan, Yeshey spent time in Nepal as a refugee before coming to the United States as an asylee in 2000. In 2010 she became a naturalized citizen of the U.S., making her eligible to vote in an election. And now, two years later, she finally had an opportunity to make use of this newfound privilege to vote. Congratulations to Yeshey and to many of our former refugee clients who are casting their ballots for the first time!

From Disney World to Afghanistan: The Reynolds' Adoption Story

Paige and John walk into a department store on Thursday afternoon, each clasping a hand of their young son Caleb. Like normal customers, they look around at the clothes on sale and wander through the different aisles. Suddenly Caleb asks, “Can we go to Disney World this weekend?” “No, honey,” Paige responds. “We can’t go to Disney World this weekend. We already went to Disney World, remember?”

“Yeah,” Caleb replies. “Maybe we won’t go to Disney World this weekend, but I’m loved.”

Paige feels tears beginning to form in her eyes. John finds his eyes wet, too. Both try to hide their faces from Caleb, not wanting him to see their emotion. Caleb, with the innocence of a five-year-old, continues to walk ahead, unable to see how much this small moment means to his parents.

Paige and John recently adopted Caleb, his four-year-old sister Madison, and his two-year-old brother Tyler through Lutheran Services of Georgia’s Adoption Services. They had originally planned to adopt only one or two children, but once they met these three siblings, the parents changed their plans. At this first meeting, Madison ran over to Paige and said, “Hi, mommy!” Paige describes this encounter as “love at first sight.” When he first saw the children, John said to himself, “They are ours.” Despite her feelings of love for the children, Paige was hesitant to adopt them; she worried whether they could handle three children at once. John reassured her, however, and they eventually welcomed all three children into their home.

The three children immediately began pursuing their interests. Tyler, the youngest child, loves sports, and has been playing with his football very often. He likes to paint, too. Madison attends tap dance & ballet classes and enjoys dressing up her baby dolls. Like Tyler, Caleb loves sports; he has been practicing his karate moves and is about to begin taking classes. He also enjoys listening while his parents read him books. Unlike Madison, who has openly expressed her affection for her new adoptive parents, Caleb has been more reserved with his feelings. This is why his seemingly insignificant comment in the department store about being loved meant so much to Paige and John; Caleb finally voiced his affection for his parents.

This moment was all the more poignant because John, a member of the U.S. Army, has been deployed overseas, limiting the amount of time he has been able to spend with his wife and children. Although he is far away from his family, John still communicates often with them and finds creative ways to interact with his children. He has been taping himself reading stories, which he sends to the children. They can slip a DVD into the television and watch their father read a book to them, almost as if he were in the same room as them. Pretty soon, they hope and pray, he will be in the same room as them, and then can continue to grow closer as a family.

Borderless Welcome, Boundless Love

“Keep on loving one another as brothers and sisters. Do not forget to show hospitality to strangers, for by so doing some people have shown hospitality to angels without knowing it. Continue to remember those in prison as if you were together with them in prison, and those who are mistreated as if you yourself were suffering.”- Hebrews 13:1-3 City folks call this the middle of nowhere. No hotels, no grocery chains, no department stores, no Starbucks, nowhere to go. This is Lumpkin, a rural town in Stewart County, the poorest county in Georgia. Yet to immigrants in the southeastern United States, Lumpkin is infamous. It is the home of the Stewart County Detention Center, the largest non-citizen detention center in the nation.

I am a volunteer with Friends in Hope, an initiative of Lutheran Services of Georgia (LSG) that coordinates visits between volunteers and Stewart detainees. This is my first time in Lumpkin. Getting to Lumpkin requires a three-hour drive from Atlanta through increasingly sparse land and into a town with almost no cell phone service. On this Saturday morning, the other LSG volunteers and I begin our day at El Refugio, a hospitality house for the friends and families of detainees. As Lumpkin has nowhere else for visitors to stay, El Refugio is truly a place of refuge. Weekends are especially busy at El Refugio, and the quaint, yellow house is full of life and chatter. While we eat lunch with the El Refugio volunteers, a Spanish-speaking mother and her children enter and ask to use the restroom. The water has been cut off at Stewart, leaving visitors without a place to relieve themselves. The El Refugio volunteers greet them warmly in Spanish, offering food, water, a place to refresh themselves, and an invitation to stay the night if they need. I watch in awe as El Refugio embodies borderless welcome and hospitality. At 12:45, we gather our things--passports or driver’s licenses, water bottles, and books--and drive the mile to the center.

Outside the Stewart Detention Center, the barbed-wire fence stretches in both directions. It is a wall not unlike that along our nation’s border or along the West Bank. The fence separates the citizen from the non-citizen, the free person from the detainee. It is constructed from the arbitrary differences and categories we use to separate us from those we see as other. Languishing inside Stewart are male detainees awaiting immigration proceedings with nothing but dwindling hope and the occasional visitor to keep them from despair. Of these men, 98.8% will be deported, cut off from the families, jobs, freedoms, and futures that drew them to the United States.

Although federal and state bodies distinguish between detention centers and prisons, detainees rarely experience this difference. Stewart County Detention Center is under the management of the Corrections Corporation of America (CCA), the nation’s largest private prison company. In 2010, CCA boasted an annual revenue of $1.7 billion (ACLU Georgia). As a for-profit, private corporation, CCA has cut corners without any real reprimands from the United States Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE). Georgia Detention Watch has documented instances of human rights violations in both of the CCA-operated detention centers in Georgia: North Georgia Detention Center and Stewart County. Even more disturbing is that CCA profits from detaining masses of people for long periods of time without honoring ICE detention standards. to the detainees and their communities, Stewart Detention Center is a prison.

We crowd into the tiny waiting room and timidly approach the security guard. I am surprised to learn that the visitor paperwork requires all visitors to list their immigration status. As I think of those unable to visit their families because they cannot answer this question without fear, I write “U.S. Citizen”, a label I have done nothing to earn. I was simply born in the right place at the right time. We hand our paperwork and photo identification to the guard, and the waiting begins.

The Stewart waiting room is far too small for the families and friends who spend hours waiting to visit loved ones. Visitors chat with each other, newcomers asking questions about what to expect. Even though CCA is contractually obligated to tailor its policies to visitors, visitors are often turned away for the slightest of offenses. If your child misbehaves in the waiting room, the guard may turn you away. If you wear a shirt without sleeves or forget to put on closed-toed shoes, the guard may turn you away. The guard refuses one of my companions because her underwire bra set off the metal detector. We cannot find anywhere to sit together, so we go outside to wait on the benches.

Hours pass. At 4:00 pm, we still have not been admitted to visit our detainees. The guard informs us that visitation hours end at four, but they will allow us in. They can only guarantee us 15 minutes. They make us feel as if they are doing us a huge favor. Along with the other visitors, I walk through the metal detector, silently praying the guards will not turn me away. An argument breaks out as one gentleman who was not with our group, frustrated with the process, makes a sardonic remark about CCA and the injustice of for-profit prisons. The guards respond without passion; they’ve heard it before.

My friend and I store our belongings in a locker and are ushered through the door, down a whitewashed hallway, and into a small visitation room. All visits at Stewart, including legal visits, are non-contact. Visitors must speak with detainees through glass plates by talking on a phone. There are five phone booths in the room, lined up in a row. Panic sets in when we realize we do not know the face of the detainee, so we choose an unoccupied booth, pick up the phone and ask, “Are you Alberto?*” We have chosen correctly.

As we converse, I am aware that anyone in the room could be listening. There is no privacy. I press the phone to my ear and listen as the man on the other side of the glass speaks. Alberto is expressive. He tells his story through words, but also through the raising of an eyebrow, the flash of a dimpled smile, the twinkle or tear in his eye. Even when I pass the phone to my friend, I cannot look away from his mesmerizing face. His story is one of sorrow, of isolation, of loneliness, and ultimately of strength. He tells of his love of poetry, of his family, and of a God who will always be with him. He gives love through the glass, affirming us and encouraging us in our own lives outside the center.

On Sunday morning, the following day, I listen to Anton Flores speak about love. As co-founder of the Alterna Community, a Christian community that offers “accompaniment, advocacy, and hospitality to Latin American immigrants,” Flores knows that real love always scales walls and cross borders. I sit with the congregation of Oakhurst Presbyterian and remember the families, friends, volunteers, and detainees that live out boundless love every day.

In Hebrews 13:1-3, Paul urges the Hebrews to practice borderless welcome and boundless love in the midst of persecution. I believe Paul’s words have special relevance for us today as we examine how we treat the strangers among us. At the heart of the world’s major religious traditions is a call to welcome the stranger, no matter her race, color, creed, or immigration status. We live in a nation where private corporations earn a profit from detaining the stranger and cutting him off from freedom. We live in a nation where the “foreigner” is more likely to encounter hateful speech than welcoming arms. We live in a nation where immigrants who have not committed violent crime are kept for months under prisonlike conditions, allowed only one visit per week and often denied access to adequate legal representation. Where is our holy rage?

Behind the barbed-wire fence, Alberto remains a fully-formed, flesh-and-blood human being capable of doing what human beings are meant to do--giving and receiving love. The combined forces of xenophobia, intolerance, and U.S. immigration law cannot erase his humanity no matter how they try. The walls of Stewart cannot stand in the way of shared humanity and of love that refuses to stay within our man-made borders.

As a person of faith, I encourage communities of faith throughout the United States to educate themselves about immigration and stand alongside the foreigner. I encourage you to travel to detention centers, to meet the people too often demonized as “other,” as “less than,” as “nonhuman”, as “illegal”. I encourage you to stand against those who would turn the stranger into someone to be feared rather than an opportunity to show God’s borderless hospitality. But most of all, I encourage you to “keeping on loving one another” with an unceasing love that knows no boundaries.

*Name has been changed for his protection.

Abby Koning is the community outreach coordinator for the ELCA Southeastern Synod.

A Day in the Life with Guru (Part IV)

At 11 a.m., after we have visited two families and Guru has patiently answered all of my nosy questions, it is time for some food. There is only one Nepalese restaurant in Clarkston—and it happens to have Bhutanese owners—so we walk into “Kathmandu Kitchen & Grill,” named after the capital of Nepal, to eat our early lunch. As I can tell from the buffet line, Nepalese cuisine features dishes with a lot of rice and vegetables, as well as various meats. Curry is common, as is a dish called “dal-bhat-tarkari,” which Guru insists that I try. “Dal” is a stew that contains split lentils, tomatoes, onion, and a host of spices; it is a staple that those in Nepal sometimes eat twice daily. A somewhat cautious eater, I try to be as adventurous as possible, picking out some fiery-looking chicken to go with my rice, vegetable stir-fry, chick-pea stew, and naan.

I am rewarded for every risk that I take: the “dal” is thick and delicious; the chicken is tender and spicy, though not as spicy as it looks; the naan complements the stews perfectly. It is a memorable way to end my morning with Guru. When he drops me off at the Avondale train station a half-hour later, the skies have cleared, and I can stroll around outside for a few minutes before taking the train back to work. Not so for Guru: once I close the door, he’s off again, heading out to Clarkston to drive the rest of his clients to their health screenings.

Jeff Banks is the communications coordinator for LSG. If you have questions or comments, please contact him at jbanks@lsga.org.

A Day in the Life with Guru (Part III)

After Guru and I leave Rajesh’s townhouse, we drive over to Southern Place, the apartment complex where LSG houses many of its refugee clients. The townhouse of the family we are visiting next is similar to the one in which Rajesh lives, except that this one is made of brick.

We walk into the complex and knock at the door of the family’s apartment. After some audible fumbling with the lock, a Bhutanese man opens the door and welcomes us. Half-expecting to see another solitary person in his apartment, I am surprised to see a large family waiting inside the living room. The father invites me to sit on a couch, and Guru settles into a spot beside me. No one in this family speaks English, and while Guru can translate easily for me, I find myself unsure of what to say or whom to address.

But soon our conversation gets going, and before long, with Guru’s help, we are talking about Bhutan, farming, and modern technology. Damber Gurung was a farmer in Bhutan before he and his family had to flee to a refugee camp in Nepal in 1992. The eldest daughter, now 20, was two-months old when the family left Bhutan for Nepal. Damber’s other two daughters were born in the refugee camp, so none of the children remembers Bhutan. The family arrived in America in early September, not quite two weeks ago. Because they have come to Atlanta so recently, they are just beginning to adjust to the new conditions and way of life in the U.S. During an awkward pause in our conversation, unable to think of anything interesting to say, I resort to the easiest escape from silence: I ask what they think of Atlanta’s tall buildings. Damber says that they are unlike anything he has ever seen, and tells me that while his wife was afraid on the elevator ride to the 18th floor of the Woodruff Volunteer Center, where LSG’s office is located, he assures me that he rode without any fear. Soon we are wrapping up our discussion, with Guru telling Damber about food stamps and orientation at LSG. After a round of goodbyes, during which I try to pronounce “dhanyawad,” a way of saying “thank you” in Hindi that I learned from Guru, we walk out to the minivan.

Check out the blog next Thursday for the fourth and final installment of A Day in the Life.

Jeff Banks is the communications coordinator for LSG. Please contact him at jbanks@lsga.org with any questions or comments.